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Anonymous  

Merry Christmas!

If your able...We are in need/hungery...Gift cards would help!

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DebbieO57  

No money, no food

Im not elibible for food stamps and have gone 3 days now with no food. Looking for help, cash assistance, food banks, anything. I've lost 75 pounds and counting. Anyone in the Montrose, CA area please help.
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00wiskers00  

The Collapse Continues

Well, It's 10:07 am, the crew just called and will be picking up our furniture it an hour. It's nice to know somebody is working.
We are now down to 4 eggs and 3 slices of bread for breakfast, guess i'll pass so they can eat.
Every moment i get more worried.
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Mellie1728  

About Mellie1728

I am drowning. I am a mother of 1 without a job. I am trying to go to school to become a nurse but I am not able to get into a nursing program because I do not have previous medical experience. My unemployement has been exhausted and I cant find a job. I have no way to buy food or pay my bills. My electricity is about to be turned off. I am estranged from my family and my kids dad has disapeared. Please will someone help me. I dont know what to do. I am lost.

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kellya  

About kellya

Hello All

 

I am a 28 year old woman living in Portland Maine (barely). Since the Recession, it has been extreemly hard for me to get a needed job to support myself being able to live. I am recently Seperated from my husband, and I have no more financial support from him. I have tried every day for the past three months to get any job that I possibly can with no luck. I can no longer afford to pay my rent and bills and in June I will be evicted from my apartment. I feel trapped, extreemly sad, and depressed. I don't know what to do if I will have no place to live with no means of money for food or anything. I ask of you to find it in the kindness of your heart to please help me through my situation in any way that you can. I promise that when I do finally get a job, I will pay you back, and contribute to others in need on this site because i REALLY do know how it feels to be in thos situation. I thank you for taking the time to read my story.

 

-Kelly

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whatIneed  

About whatIneed

Hello. My Name is Renee and I am registered on this page because I am hungry and feeling a little depressed. I live with my brother who has a three year old little girl and my mom. We are a poor family.....we have always been a poor family. We always are living on a prayer as my mother says. My brother is currently not working and on unemplyment, he also has a rare form of arthiritis and he is only 22 yeaars old. My mother just took short term disability leave due to severe depression from her low paying job. I am also unemplyed and debating trying to go to school to better myself. I have put off going back to school since highschool in 2004 in order to work and help take care of my family. The only jobs I get are low paying and I am not able to move up. My bother is currently attending school and aspires to build houses. We all do the best we can.We take turns watching the baby because we cannot afford daycare for her. We live day to day always wondering if we will have the money to eat or have clean close or keep the lights on. I dont want to struggle anymore and I dont want to see my family struggle either. I want to be ableto do for myself and my family. I dont want my niece to have to grow up in the same conditions I did.....but it is happening....s;owly but surely. Please help. I just want to be a normal family that dosent have to strugglr and fight everyday due to lack of everything. Thank you.
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debbie33  

About debbie33

I need help to pay my gas bill it is 514.60 living on a fix income i will not make it this month dont no whit to do now to kids to feed need my gas to stay warm and cook have other bill to take the rest now no food please help use.

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bigben  

I NEED HELP!

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bigben  

About bigben

I NEED ADVICE ON HOW TO CONTINUE MY LIFE!
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shejay  

About shejay

I am a 44 yr old woman married to a drug addict, I am on depression medicine and still stressing out every day. I am currently attending city college for a medical assistant. I work full time at walmart.  I am not making much money as you can see. Things have been ok till latley my husband has not been getting but one or two days at work and all the bills are on me again besides the money he gives to the drug man I am not making it out here. I have prayed  so hard for god to send me an miricle some kinda way. My youngest daughter moved out a few months ago.  Since then thing have gotten worse.  We have not food at all. I brought a pack of groundbeef and have been eating off of that for two weeks now. I am sick to my stomach from all the grease.  People ask me then why dont i eat at work. All the food there is fried also, i work in the deli part. So I have been eating popcorn and roman noodles. Im so tired of all of this if there are any resourses out there for help i would appreciate it dearly

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neverbefore  

About neverbefore

I'm 46 and unemployed first time in my life with no hope some in site and no income.Ihave my 2 nephew with me and a house mortgage and truck payment no bill money or school clothes for boys and I feel hopeless wishing to be dead most days. I need help-money fast and a job I went from $54,000.00 a year to $0.0 in one day please help in anyway. Donna

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maxfaxtor  

About maxfaxtor

I really don't know where to begin or if anyone will really see this but I am doing this as my last cry for help. I am a single mother of three, 16, 14, 12. I am a full time worker but due to the mortgage increase and the economy going bad all my bills have increase. I am also at risk for losing my home. I had orthoscopic surgery last year and I am also flooded with medical bills. I am unable to put food on my table and have started encouraging my kids to eat all they can at school. My son recently got in touble for eating lunch when it wasn't his lunch period and the school has placed him on probation because he has done it more than once.

 I have borrowed so mych from friends that I can no longer ask them for help and I have no family to turn to. I need help and I need it desparately. I am becoming depressed and I don't want this situation to take my livelihood. I am a very independent person and I really tried to fix my problem on my owm but now it is way out of hand and I cannot maintain any sense of security for my children. There are time that I will not eat so my children will have food to eat and I go to work and my coworkers will offer me food to eat, not because they know my situation but because they are kind.

I don't know who reads this but if you are reading this and you can help, please help. This is not a joke and I hope this site isn't either.

 

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CATLUV   in reply to xxhopexisnotxlostxx   on

sigh...

Hi ~

I may have found someone who might have some help for you regarding getting some groceries. Her name is Kymberli and her brother lives in San Fransisco. I am going to give her your information and let you two see if you can figure something out. I can't promise anything, but it's a start. She might need a phone number to reach you, not sure. I have a small amount of money, but hey, it's something. Give me your address and I'll get it in the mail for you too. I hope that we can get some nutrition in your body, so you can give energy to healing. Also, have you looked up your local food drives? I know that all cities, especially big one's have food programs, both where you can go pick up food like a grocery store, as well as applying for food stamp program. The program here in Washington recently changed, and allows those making up to $40,000 a year to receive benefits. And they're not "stamps" anymore, they're like debit cards, so you don't feel like you are any "less than" or embarrassed, etc. Go on the website for San Fran county government, and do a search for assistance or food program. You will qualify, and I know that they have emergency qualification for those in your situation where you literally have not eaten. I hope that this may bring some relief and help some how. 

Please write me back when you can. Blessings, things will get better, this too shall pass, Brenna 

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xxhopexisnotxlostxx  

sigh...

it has been a week since my last meal....please help... i dont know what else to do...

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xxhopexisnotxlostxx  

About xxhopexisnotxlostxx

i feel like i am at the end of my rope... i'm 25 yrs old and completely alone in this city. i feel like misfortune is forcing me to harbor an almost bitter hatred for san francisco. i lost my job in february after missing most of january due to pneumonia. lets just say that i was in no way financially prepared to be unemployed. now i am so behind in rent, i am on the verge of being evicted... evicted for a SRO that has no heat and VERY faulty electricity. the stress has wreaked havok on my fibromyalgia. my days are now spent in agony. for the last week i have not been able to get out of bed due to the pain. its worse than anything i have ever felt. i am feeling so hopeless im sorry if it sounds like im throwing myself a huge pity party, i just feel like i am completely out of options. i have no money, no food - i even ate the last of the bbq sauce a day or two ago. luckily the pain from the fms makes me nauseous so i dont think about food too often. ive been denied all government aid and i really dont know what to do at this point...

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mom39of2  

About mom39of2

Im a single mother of 2 children.  I am behind on EVERYTHING.  Im on the verge of being evicted, losing my insurance, car, we have no food, I get assistance for my daughters daycare, and Im 200 behind on that, and they wont let her come back after next week unless the balance is paid, and that means I will miss work, or my son will miss school to stay home with her, my power bill is past due and about to be turned off.  My son who is 16 is feeling the affects of the stress Im under and hes turning to drugs to numb the pain.  I need help to get ahead.  I do work, I just cant get ahead and as we all know, it gets worse when the next month comes around.  I dont have anyone I can turn to to borrow money and I am alone in the town I live in.  Does anyone know how to help?  I just googled 'help with bills' and this came up?  I promise Im not out for a handout.  I NEED HELP DESPERATELY!  

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nae nae  

About nae nae

Hello everyone my name is TIffany and I am in real need of money i can't support my son and I am pregnant now and my kids father do not want to be around. I can't afford school supplies for my son and I can't afford uniforms for him. We barely eat and I'm just hoping that my baby is fine because I barely eat. I wish had some help with money.
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flux0123  

About flux0123

My place of employment recently shut down. I did find new employment but it does not start for another 2 weeks and then another 2 weeks for my first check. I live week to week, there's no food in the fridge and all the bills including rent are way past due. Im scared that I may not make it a month. My family needs help at the moment. Any amount will help. Thank you in advance.

 

If you have any questions or would like to help you can email/paypal me at suddentwist@yahoo.com

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T.H.G  

About T.H.G

I am a young men with a wife trying to get my feet on the ground, but no matter how much i work i never seem to get ahead. I am always struggling to pay the rent on time, im almost three mounths behind on my car payment, if i dont pay the electric by monday it gets shut off, car insurence is late and on the 17th it will be cancled. and we have not a crum to eat.

I am so over my head its crazy, and i need help, anything would help.

Thank you. 

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prayforus13  

About prayforus13

We have children, and all our utilities are turned off, or about to be turned off. It is with this that we need help most urgently. It gets worse, I was just served a summons - I am being sued for a loan I havent been able to make payments on. 

We were hit hard this year. We moved here for a job my husband was taking. They delayed his start date by a month, and then revoked the job offer because of 'internal problems', despite sending resumes out daily, the only job he's been able to find that he could get to (he cant drive, so he relies on public transportation) was a temporary job at a sub shop for 25 hours a week at $8 an hour. It lasted 6 weeks, and this was the best he could do with a Bachelors Degree!

Then 2 weeks after buying our house, I fractured my ankle and my company cut my schedule to 52 hours every two weeks without any reason other than they didnt want me being seen by customers on crutches or in my leg brace. The two times a month I saw potential customers I was required not to wear a medically required brace, or use crutches, and to wear high heels (i was not supposed to be wearing a shoe at all on my injured foot)!

It was 4 months before I got my full schedule back (october) but they then transferred me to a team that traveled to very poor rural cities, asking people to spend $2000 to train their kids to be models. 98% of the people where they were sending me couldn't afford basic things like car payments, so obviously, I was no longer making any of bonuses.

My son (17) then lost his job in November. Followed by my heart attack in February. My company took this opportunity to fire me 2 weeks after i got out of the hospital because I had not closed enough sales FROM MY HOSPITAL ROOM to make quota, and are vigorously fighting paying me unemployment because I was doing photography (not of anyone working with my company) on the side to try to make ends meet. They now say it was somehow related to the modeling business (it wasn't, I was doing product photography) and it violated their non-compete policy, so they argue they arent liable for unemployment.

It's been 3 months, and I have exhausted what savings we had. I am in pre-foreclosure, behind 2 car payments (it was that or not eat), my water gets shut off next week without a $120 payment, our gas was shut off yesterday (I need $900 to get it back on because of deposits etc now), I need to pay $95 by the 4th of june for our electric to stay on (payment plan) and if i dont come up with $185 by the 10th we will have no phone or internet. I've already given up my cel phone and my sons. I'm down to 1/2 a tank of gas and $24 and that $24 will buy charcoal and meat so we can cook on the grill (because we have no gas service).

My son had a job interview set for two weeks ago, but his car battery went out, and I cant afford to replace it, so he has no way to get to the interview or work.

We are desperate, and I dont have family to turn to (my grandmother is in the hospital in a coma now 800 miles away, my father is dead, his mother is in an assisted living place, and my mother is disabled). I am at the end of my rope.

My health is poor, and my left leg is rodded (i dont walk so well), but the bright spot at the end of the tunnel is that I've finally got a contract graphic design from home job that I am up for (I'll know next week, please pray for me that the job will happen and I'll do well) but if I lose my internet/phone on the 10th, it wont be possible.

If anyone can help in any way, I can provide my addresss so they can make a donation directly to our utility company account. If anyone in northern illinois has a battery for a 95 ford probe to donate, I could give our address for it to be droped off to so my son can work. I'm praying that someone out there can see fit to help me save my family.

God bless.

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